tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8630603356200272670.post6536462778929158681..comments2023-03-25T04:22:44.050-07:00Comments on The Secret Life of a Divorcee: Dirty weekendsLara Lakinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02146967474183174325noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8630603356200272670.post-49506713138255631182012-02-05T15:55:03.324-08:002012-02-05T15:55:03.324-08:00Fear not! I do not tar all men with the same brus...Fear not! I do not tar all men with the same brush. In fact, I get annoyed when people constantly remark 'that's men for you...'. I honestly believe that there are good people and bad people. Gender has nothing to do with 'goodness' and 'badness'. And you are right to stick to your guns. 'Friends with benefits'? I just think it's one person taking advantage of the other person's hope, that it will become something more... You are worth more than that!Lara Lakinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02146967474183174325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8630603356200272670.post-42103321247910127472012-02-05T14:21:46.940-08:002012-02-05T14:21:46.940-08:00Hi Lars, please don't tar all men with the sam...Hi Lars, please don't tar all men with the same brush. I had a passionless marriage and after the split met someone who I loved and still love. The physical side was wonderful not just the sex but the passion and the lust. Distance and one or two other things meant she ended the relationship but we are still very good friends. She'd like benefits added to that friendship (it works for a friend of hers apparently). It's not for me, while I truly miss it and I'm running a cold bath as I type :-) I can only see one of us thinking there's more to it than just the sex and getting hurt again (me).<br />Your thoughts and reasons are right. You will find what you want. It will be better and it will be sooner than you think. <br />Best wishes Spanner xSpannerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14317277045630419534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8630603356200272670.post-22141034638721398802012-02-05T13:24:43.266-08:002012-02-05T13:24:43.266-08:00Sadly not!!!Sadly not!!!Lara Lakinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02146967474183174325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8630603356200272670.post-70160501034448856812012-02-05T13:24:27.202-08:002012-02-05T13:24:27.202-08:00Thank you! I appreciate your comment...Thank you! I appreciate your comment...Lara Lakinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02146967474183174325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8630603356200272670.post-48798725546652991352012-02-04T23:43:57.053-08:002012-02-04T23:43:57.053-08:00Yoy are very decent woman and i like the way you w...Yoy are very decent woman and i like the way you writePeternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8630603356200272670.post-17086176221939219282012-02-04T19:37:22.249-08:002012-02-04T19:37:22.249-08:00Yes, that stuff doesn't work the same way for ...Yes, that stuff doesn't work the same way for us, does it?Leslie Loftis (AHLondon)https://www.blogger.com/profile/06020350324457740919noreply@blogger.com